First always remember that Santa does exist you won't see a "SANTA" but you watch Christmas will come. Have to talked to your local Women's Shelter, ususally for abused women and most people do not realize that they do so much more for all women and children, the only thing is they will not come to you because they do not know about you. Therefore I suggest that you start there and at the very least they are able and willing to direct you to services which are available strickly to assist women and children, (their services are not exclusive to abused women anymore)yet the abused is their main prority-you only have to meet with a conselor there whom is more than happy to provide you information leading you to other agencies which provide help with what you need. I hope this may be of help you. Ask for what it is you need without hesitation- if you are turned down-what have you lost? nothing-so-ask. My Mom told me " YOU ALREADY HAVE A NO-UNLESS YOU ASK- THEN YOU HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF GETTING A YES" I now live by that, not everything results in "YES" but not asking sure won't. Hope this is helpful. God Bless you